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Winning Coaches Teach Players Benefits of Self ControlOne of the great character traits a coach can teach youth is to accept individual responsibility for their attitude and how they act. This is arguably one of the most important factors young people can learn as they grow toward adulthood. It is a cornerstone of socialization, a process through which they will learn how to get along harmoniously with others as they mature.A second great character trait that a coach can teach youth is self-control. The acceptance of individual responsibility and self control go hand in hand. They are inseparable. A well coached team that practices these two disciplines will be a winning team no matter what the record looks like at the end of the season. Among other lessons, every player will have learned four of the most foundational lesson's that life has to teach.
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The only thing we can change or control in life is ourselves. "Not being able to govern events, I govern myself………….." (Abraham Joshua Heschel The Insecurity of Freedom: Essays on Human Existence, 1967) Once players accept this fact they can begin to accept responsibility for their own behavior and the blame game comes to an end. This will promote team unity. |
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Players will stay within the boundaries of acceptable behavior. Competitive sports create surges of emotion. Without self-restraint, excess emotion can be destructive to a team and lead to turmoil both on and off the field. Like the self steering gear on a sailboat, self control keeps them on course no matter which way the wind blows. |
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Misbehavior is a characteristic of some youth who lack self restraint. By teaching your players the value of self-control you will help insulate them from the effects of poor peer conduct both on and off the field. |
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Stops the blame game that disrupts team harmony. Players learn to be patient and tolerant of others, accepting the fact that they have no control over what others do. They learn to make an honest evaluation of themselves when they make a mistake and learn from the experience. |
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Improves self esteem and results in a healthy self-image. A player who plays by the rules and stays within the boundaries of acceptable behavior will be more confident and self-reliant. These players are more coachable, play with more enthusiasm and tend to be team leaders. |
See You At the Top!!
Coach Matt
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